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    We are the parsons.
    we are a married couple who choose each other every day.
    we are parents of the three most amazing boys on planet earth: micah, tyler, and zion.
    we are dreamers, lovers, mistake makers, picture takers and explorers.
    we are children of God.

    we invite you to journey with us as we adventure into what it means to be a taste of the goodness of God to the world.

    thank you so much for being here, it means so much to us!

~ last night’s dinner ~


sometimes I get my recipes from my favorite cookbook, the sprouted kitchen, other times the food and wine or whole food websites. but sometimes there are nights where I just need some extra help and I look to the all powerful google to give me the answer. last night, knowing I had a few items and that cauliflower was one of them, I found the love & lemons blog, and the perfect cauliflower pasta recipe.

Before you check out because you hate what you know of cauliflower, don’t. Jeremy hates it, too. or hated it, until I made this dish last night, and now he is a believer!

Because so many of you asked for the recipe on instagram, I am copying and pasting the recipe below, but you really must try it, and you must check the blog out. she is, as far as I can see, a fantastic chef, and as a vegetarian, i adore the liberal use of fresh, seasonal, whole ingredients often found in her recipes.

a few personal notes:
I modified the recipe a bit to feed 4.
1 entire head of cauliflower
2 shallots
3 garlic cloves
1 entire bunch of fresh organic spinach
2 lemons, zest of 1
1 cup feta cheese (because jeremy is feta crazy)
1/2 cup chopped fresh basil leaves
1/4 cup sliced toasted almonds
1/4 cup toasted bread crumbs (you MUST toast them, it really changes the flavor)
2 poached eggs on top, so everyone got 1/2 of one on top of their pasta when plated.

I left out the sun dried tomatoes and red pepper flakes because I didn’t fancy them that night.
And in my humble opinion, the poached eggs are a MUST.

oh. my. gosh. they were so heavenly.

here’s how I poached the eggs:

4 cups water
1 T red wine vinegar

bring to heavy boil.
crack 1 egg into a small bowl. (I used the small dish we have for coffee creamer, because it pours easily)
turn down water and vinegar to a low boil and pour in the egg gently so it doesn’t break.
one moment later, pour in the second egg.
2 minutes on the timer, then pull out with a slotted spoon and keep in a bowl of warm water until it’s time for it to garnish the pasta.

voila!
Tu dois le faire, c’est très bon!

.my journey into the art of bread making.

I have never been a baker.
nor did I think it was an art that I would ever begin to navigate.
my experience with baking has been limited to banana breads or the pillsbury can of crescent rolls, which were replaced in the past couple of years with the frozen croissants (chocolate) from trader joes. I bake those. hard. but baking them means I just take them out of the freezer at night, bake them in the morning and voila! croissant baked magic!

but this was a completely new undertaking. to make my first bonafide loaves of bread, from scratch.
My inspiration came in the form of our friend ken parsons, husband to my dear friend carrie and father to two of our boys friends, who is a baking sensei and has perfected many, many loaves of bread and shared them with us over many parsons family meals.
at our most recent meal, we shared a couple of beautiful loaves that ken had made fresh that afternoon, and I decided at first bite that I must at least

t r y

to make this bread with my own two hands for our family. so, with a recipe book and some very important supplies loaned by ken, and his phone number on my speed dial to text with random questions every hour or so, Jeremy and I embarked on an 18 hour journey to bake bread for the first time.

the book:
Bread Alone
bold fresh loaves from your own hands
by Leader and Blahnik

the recipe:
Classic Country style Hearth Loaf
made into round boules

the process began the night before, making my first poolish and praying in the morning I would find a beautiful starter for the bread.
then the next morning, mixing the final dough (in jeremy’s grandmother’s kitchen aid mixer from the wartime era and still turning like a champ), kneading the final dough (about 30 minutes), fermenting the final dough (about 3 hours), deflating and resting the dough (30 minutes), dividing the dough and shaping the loaves (10 minutes), proofing the loaves (2-3 more hours), scoring then baking the loaves (40 minutes of crazy anticipation and nervous excitement!), cooling the loaves (at least 20 minutes of smelling the heaven, but not eating it!), then . . . E A T !

here was the process in photographs, including a visit from my bread sensei at the end of the experience – I love how fresh I look when it all begins, and how worn out I am at the end.
it’s a beautiful, delicate, and time consuming art, but the next time you have a loaf of fresh artisan bread, be thankful for the work . . . very, very thankful.

as for us, we have already made the recipe again, and our hope is to have fresh country style hearth loaves in our bread box for the foreseeable future.

the trailer, and the epic blizzard

we purchased a vintage shasta trailer last year. we worked a bunch to gut and start to restore it, but it is far from complete, and we hope to see this project someday take the form of a lovely little dwelling. but for now, it is sitting there in the back yard staring at us reminding us that we have neglected it in lieu of more grown up duties. we recently had 2 huge snowstorms back to back. the first, we spent at the lake. the second, we spent holed up in our house with our dear friends “the other parsons”. truly, they are the parsons, too! they live a couple of blocks from us, have kids in the same school as ours, same ages, and each kindergarten year our kids were put in the same class (i think the school thought they were twins). they are dear friends, and we ate soup, broke bread that ken made that day, and enjoyed good beer while the kiddos played. they all spent the night, and Jeremy and Ken made good use of the trailer…for that night, at least, it became the pipe smoking den.

the morning, this was the sight we all woke up to!
glory be!

as fun as it is, the snow is almost all melted now, and we are ready for spring. the hope of the grass turning green and the trees coming back to life is a daily one..now we wait.

saying it over and over again in my head…

in the midst of a chaotic season where the laundry is never done, the emails are never fully answered, and the to do list is growing more quickly than it is getting checked off, I made myself an iphone screen saver. so that at least, every time I open up my phone I am reminded to take a moment, take a deep breath, and remind myself of what he says to me
feel free to snatch it and use it yourself, if you need it as badly as I do.

the time we got snowed in at a lake house…on Jeremy’s birthday!

We meet all kinds of wonderful people through the work that we do. And sometimes, those wonderful people are gracious and generous enough to tell us they would like us to come stay at their lakehouse whenever we need some time away as a family.

So, upon hearing that a horrifically large snowstorm was about to hit the Midwest, and already having planned a surprise trip for Jeremy’s birthday to the lakehouse, I told him about it a day early and we packed up the house, loaded the car, grocery shopped, and upon the kid’s arrival home from school, we were ready to drive into the country to stay at the lakehouse, and get snowed in just in time for Jeremy’s birthday.

The kids could hardly contain their excitement when we pulled up and announced “we are staying here for the next few days and you don’t have to go to school tomorrow!!!” school was cancelled for several days, and we woke up to snow…lots and lots and lots of snow!!

The time in the quiet, the sights of snow falling out of every big picture window for days on end, time to read books and have chats, hot baths, games, wood fires that Jeremy gladly kept going, cuddles with our boys and each other, lovely homemade meals, a celebratory birthday pipe smoke (for the man), exploring in the woods around the lake, and no way of getting out and back to the city for a few nights were just a few of the highlights of this much needed respite.

Here’s just a little of what we loved about those few days.